Homemakers and English

Could homemakers also keep 

their confidence high by talking better English.
We all willingly or unwillingly would accept English has become "THAT" important these days.After,all the hundreds of full fledged efforts have you convinced yourself and settled with losing hope to talk in English.Don't do that.It all needs only a little more effort after all.


Terms which can actually help in your conversations or dialogues are here

                  

Here is how you need to accept apologies,which helps you to maintain a decent note.

There would arise so many situations where you need to ask the opposite person to repeat.So use these on the go.

These are kinda small simple phrases which help you start with sentences in a conversation.Catch you all with a little  more English and information.

Bye..........

Women's health

HIGH REGARDS AND GREETINGS TO MY DEAR HOMEMAKERS
 Today I am addressing the most unloved sector of the society who deserve to be loved more.

                      

The topic of least priority in the society according to me is women's health,the supposed to be most addressed one though.Women,the to be considered trash bins of the house,have never had the time to think about their health. Neither the ones around them do.


We need not and cannot be the most gracious,loving Mother Teresa but could have the basic courtesy and care for the women around us. 

                 

        

Women of any age though,working or homemakers neglect their health enormously which as a society is the most worrying issue.How could unhealthy and malnutritioned MOMS give birth and raise HEALTHY individuals in the society.This is so alarming.

                 

Most women,in special homemakers may be in their thirties,forties,close to their sixties work all their lives so hardly well suddenly at one point in life surprise them with getting diagnosed with cancer,heart disease or a sudden massive attack which crushes the family into desert sand.


Why not spend sometime and put some effort to take care of ourselves and eat the correct ones.I would plead and suggest women to eat on time,have physical activity,be engaged.Many do binge eating to kill their boredom which cannot be forgiven.The time for yourself is the time invested for your loving family.In case you don't have a loving family what then,still you have to take care of yourself even more and better.Your "Me Time" gives all the passion and energy to lead your precious life.YOUR COOKER WHISTLES ALONE DON'T NEED TO BE YOUR MUSIC,HEEL YOUR SOUL AND BODY ,MUSIC COULD ALSO HELP YOU BETTER.Find ways to replenish and rejuvenate you.



I had a neighbour who was a smart,active,agile whatsoever goodhearted,all the way smiling teacher.She was teaching Science.A mom of two boys.Suddenly in her early forties was diagonised with Uterine cancer.The amount of agony she faced showed me what life was.The entire family got shattered and was helpless after her loss.Friends I don't want to spread any negativity,but none of us know what life has kept in surprise for us .
YOUR LOSS COULD BE LIKE A SYSTEM SHUTTING DOWN SUDDENLY WITHOUT ANY BACK UP.

DO YOUR MASTER HEALTH CHECK UP ONCE YOU TOUCH THIRTY AT LEAST.ONCE DIAGNOSED WITH ANYTHING FISHY FACE THAT AND COME OUT AS GRACEFULLY AS POSSIBLE WITHOUT ANY PANIC BECAUSE THEIR ARE GOOD HEARTS ALSO AROUND YOU.


             

WATCH OUT ON YOUR HEALTH AND WHAT YOU EAT. LOVE YOURSELF AND THE OTHERS AROUND YOU.STAY POSITIVE AND CHEERFUL.

WITH LOVE AND CARE MARY FERNANDEZ 

A Homemaker Mother Can Be A Great Role Model Too ...

Is it really difficult for our society to accept homemakers over working women?Why is it so?
Could not they be more useful elements in the society?Isn't their contribution to the society enormous.I personally see and find them as very very strong women in life.They are really underrated.Their multitasking skills could even be inspirational to even many professionals.





                       

Time has never been a matter to chase for homemakers.My biggest question always lies why they are most of the times typecasted or stereotyped as innocent,ignorant,useless and whatsoever be degraded.Often seen many mean men address homemakers as "you are simply sitting at home only know".What could that ever mean.How could somebody do everything and get such a kinda name,atrocious.



                           

      






Never ever restrict yourself to the kitchen,because you are something beyond those spoons and laddles.
Isn't it a 24×7 job with responsibility love and care,though unpaid.Have families or family members ever deducted them from their lives and imagined their state.Miserable they would be.Homemakers form the major support system in a family.They are the ones to strike a balance and incorporate certain subtleness in the society diluting the busy and chaotic lifestyle around.

                      

So my very dear homemakers please feel proud of yourselves,feel dignified.Please do self analyse and explore your passions to earn some respect over yourselves and for yourselves. Have the confidence to say your a homemaker,because not all could do it so gracefully as you.
Well practically Homemakers could really survive as "ROLE MODELS" to the society if they first respect themselves and the work they do.
You and your talent,knowledge could change everybody's perspective of a homemaker.
Behind almost 90 percent of everybody whose won today tasting success,is a silent hardworking selfless homemaker.If you don't even salute them at least love and respect them.


Always be motivated.Nobody can help you to come out of whatever problems you have,except yourself.Always when you fall down in your life,get up like a horse and run again swiftly not like an elephant.This is my simple and humble request to all my fellow homemakers.

EARN YOUR RESPECT.STAY FIT AND HEALTHY FOR YOU PLAY A SILENT ROLE IN ALL OUR LIVES.MY ADDRESS IS TO ALL AROUND.


BYE FOR NOW AND REALISE YOUR PRECIOUSNESS MY DEAR ONES.............

BODY SHAMING

BODY SHAMING

An out of my box topic,it might seem really a bit weird.But it's high time we start talking about it.

                     

                  

Well I don't wanna make my blog so preachy,yet I am so focussed  to bring into notice and discussion over the real time problems of women and children.Infact mothers,homemakers,women whatsoever will have children or even themselves facing such a kinda problems.Let's here address those unaddressed,so called simple issues which could be degrading,emotionally weakening,sometimes frustrating too.

                   

THOUGH it all sounds so gigantic it's the real sickness of the society.I felt myself responsible to tell this to the mom,the child and you all. 

Now,let me tell you why I felt so important to address this topic and bring it to your notice is because a friend of mine called me on a very low note saying thet her extra intelligent,smart,bookish,topper,all rounder,beautiful daughter was constantly body shamed at the school for being simply "too fat".She was into a dance class at her school where she has been teased with a hint that being fat she is not fit to be in a dance class.Hope this was the most annoying thing I could have heard in the last few years.The child had been constantly worrying about this felt small,low and shameful about her in spite of all her achievements.Slowly she had started to show up low in her performance.How rude that could be on her....The child had felt it as her BIGGEST mistake.

                  

                          

    

Could this be simply be thrown as a blame on the young kids at school or plainly their hopeless brought up or the society where they live in.I don't wanna be judgemental.My answer to my worried friend was telling her to please motivate the child,love HERSELF  as what she is and whatever her size,skin tone,looks,height is,nothing she is responsible for.I quoted her few examples of people,especially woman who have just gracefully won these kinda stigmatic issues just by winning in their life in whatever field they were.I told her to ask her child to just ignore such comments and ridicule,when at some point the ones doing it get bored off.That I thought would be the best slipper shot to them.I told her I would grab a chance of talking with her child.

        

                             

I ended my conversation with her saying,the people I quoted as examples for winning beyond body shaming, "ONCE THEY WON,NOBODY TALKED ABOUT WHAT SIZE THEY WERE OR THEIR LOOKS,THEY ONLY TALKED ABOUT THEIR ACHIEVEMENTS,ASK HER TO ACHIEVE".O MY VERY DEAR FRIENDS THIS IS WHAT I KNEW and I conveyed it to her.

                       

When it comes on a note for you to stick on to good health or to help you out with your health issues,then it's a completely different topic.It is so sickenening to keep on listening to body shaming comments,but build up the self confidence of your child or rather even yourself which I think would be the best way to fight body shaming.

              

                          

 Friends,nobody in this world can make you feel better than you and it's the "ONLY YOU".

Friends I think all of your'll would in one point of time been in such a situation,please do share that with me and all my blog viewers the comment section below.Let's bring a welcoming change..........

Women and homemakers could do more than what they are doing now in their lives.They could change this world better.

Bye ..........And will get back to you with something good to read.....

HAVE WE FORGOTTEN TO LIVE

Greetings to my dear women,
Have we all forgotten to live our lives these days.It is something that bothers me all these days.Why we don't even realise that we do have such a beautiful life and such a precious body.All the hush and bush has stolen all the beauty of a human life,especially the almost souless homemakers.Atleast men or rather working women have umpteen number of ways to divert them,in fact rescue them.Well........how about the pathetic homemakers.This keeps me worried.Well that's why I feel,homemakers have to take a strong stand to be their own rescue.
             

You homemakers should surely spare and schedule your time to discover your passion.Family or responsibility or care could be your priority,but our health,fitness and passion should never ever be ignored or neglected.Our health and passion should never be compromised or compensated.

So my dear women please do definitely take care of your body and health.We shall definitely see more about women health care and many other informative content.

Expecting your feedback and queries related to women eagerly.

See you all in another blog

Homemakers and Self Motivation

                                HOW CAN YOU STAY MOTIVATED

                    Well what could be the secret of being MOTIVATED.Yes,Self Motivation could be the only solution of staying soul lively.Often women,working or homemakers have very tender minds and feel fragile inside.The more exposure you get the more stronger you could become.It is only the first step.The more struggles you learn to face in your lives would for sure make you stronger and intense.You will slowly stop running away from your problems and face the reality.

                   Most of the humans in general always wait for a helping hand at times of crisis.Never do that,end of the day all of us at some point in time will be left alone.So always believe in yourself and have the good human beings around you,yet fight your battle yourself.Be secure but fight tough.



            "FIGHT BIGGER BATTLES IN YOUR LIFE TO STAY STRONG,TO KNOW THE REAL YOU.SELF HELP COULD ALWAYS BE THE BEST HELP"
                               

Catch u all in my next blog dear women





               

Intelligence within homemakers

Hi dear ones

               "Great minds discuss ideas 

                Average minds discuss events 

                Small minds discuss people"

Well dear ladies just think what you discussed these days.Once you start to discuss ideas you can really ensure yourselves of finding your real self and achieve.
                               
                   

              Not to self boast,many I meet often ask me you don't anyways resemble or seem to look like a homemaker???? Well but I am one.Note and watch what your discussing everyday and find out your real self.Explore yourself and find out your intelligence.Does it really sound like a piece of boring advice,try it you'll truly feel greatful.

             "Don't just discuss people if at all you were,let people discuss you"